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Navigating Uncharted Waters: A Year of Growth, Resilience, and Infinite Possibilities

Awareness, Goals, Motivation, Positive Psychology / Mylan Holland

Picture this: It’s the last day of the year, and you find yourself sitting by the window, sipping a warm cup of tea or an iced tea (depending on how close you are to the equator), while memories of the past year swirl through your mind. It’s a time of reflection, gratitude, and anticipation. As the clock strikes midnight, you make a promise to yourself – a New Year’s resolution. This resolution holds the potential to transform your life, to shape your future, and to guide you towards becoming the best version of yourself. Welcome to the world of new beginnings and the power of New Year’s resolutions. Acknowledging Growth and Resilience: The past year has been a rollercoaster ride – a year that challenged our resilience, tested our strength, and forced us to adapt. We faced economic inflation, budget cuts, and uncertainty at every turn. But amidst the chaos, we discovered our capacity to overcome obstacles, to find alternative paths, and to grow in ways we never thought possible. Take a moment to acknowledge your growth and resilience, for it is the foundation upon which your future resolutions will be built. Embracing Optimism and Gratitude: As we bid farewell to the challenges of the past year, let us embrace the new year with optimism and gratitude. The lessons learned have equipped us with the wisdom to face whatever lies ahead. It is a time to be grateful for the opportunities that await us, the experiences that will shape us, and the untapped potential within ourselves. Let gratitude pave the way for a year filled with joy, success, and personal fulfillment. The True Essence of New Year’s Resolutions: Beyond the cliché of losing weight or quitting bad habits, New Year’s resolutions hold a deeper meaning. They are an opportunity for personal growth, self-improvement, and transformation. It is a chance to learn new things, build profound relationships, and discover passions that ignite our souls. Let your resolutions be a reflection of your values, your aspirations, and your desire to live a life that is aligned with your true self. Tips for Personal Growth: 1. Set clear and achievable goals: Break down your resolutions into smaller, manageable steps that can be accomplished throughout the year. 2. Prioritize self-care: Make time for activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul, whether it’s practicing mindfulness, exercising, or pursuing a hobby. 3. Learn something new: Expand your horizons by learning a new skill, taking up a new hobby, or immersing yourself in a subject you’ve always been curious about. 4. Cultivate meaningful relationships: Surround yourself with people who inspire, support, and challenge you to grow. Nurture your relationships and make an effort to connect with loved ones regularly. 5. Celebrate progress: Acknowledge and celebrate the small victories along the way. Each step forward is a testament to your commitment and determination. Facts About New Year’s Resolutions: – According to a study, people who explicitly make resolutions are 10 times more likely to achieve their goals than those who don’t. – The most common resolutions include exercising more, eating healthier, and saving money. – Research shows that it takes an average of 66 days to form a new habit. Exploring Further: If you’re seeking more inspiration and insights on personal growth, we invite you to explore our blog and delve deeper into topics such as mindfulness, self-care, and goal setting. Visit our website and follow us on social media for regular updates, thought-provoking articles, and practical advice on embracing new beginnings. Conclusion: As we embark on a new year, let us embrace the power of New Year’s resolutions. They are not mere promises made in the spur of the moment but opportunities for growth, transformation, and self-discovery. Reflect on the lessons learned, acknowledge your resilience, and step into the future with optimism and gratitude. Remember, the journey of self-improvement begins with a single resolution. Embrace this new beginning, and let it guide you towards a year filled with personal growth, happiness, and fulfillment.

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Introverts Can Be Excellent Leaders

Emotional Intelligence, Positive Psychology / My Holland

When we think of leaders, we picture them as outgoing, charming, and friendly. But did you know that introverts can be excellent leaders? Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg and Elon Musk are a few examples. I’ll bet you thought these world-renowned individuals were not. Try searching the web for the top qualities of great leaders. You’ll find trustworthiness, integrity, and empathy, among others. I haven’t seen a list that included charismatic or extroverted, though these may get politicians the votes to win an election. But, there’s no guarantee they’ll perform well as leaders. So, why we think introverts can become great leaders? Here are some facts about them you might not be aware of: They’re not shy. We often assume introverts are shy but, most of them aren’t. They spend time deep in thought, so they sometimes avoid others. But they aren’t uncomfortable when they’re in a crowd. Maybe they choose to be quiet. They’re not detached. Yes, introverts can be loners. Albert Einstein was considered one. He loved his solitude and spent much time in silent reflection. Einstein had a family, so he wasn’t living alone. Being a loner isn’t necessarily bad. It doesn’t mean aloofness. Humans are social beings, but we need that time alone to recharge. Everybody needs that break away from everything. They’re secure people. Both extroverts and introverts can be insecure. Are you familiar with Johnny Carson? He is known as the “King of Late Night.” He exuded confidence and poise on television. But later on, he admitted he had insecurities in an interview. Introverts can have high self-esteem. People think they’re silent because they lack self-confidence. They’re not indecisive. You can say this about extroverts too. Introverts spend time weighing all options before making a decision. They don’t decide on impulse. Where would Microsoft or Facebook be now if Gates or Zuckerberg were indecisive? These companies wouldn’t be at the top. They are intelligent. It’s a mistake to assume talkative people are smart. Many think introverts are quiet because they have nothing to share. But sometimes, the people who talk more are those who know the least about a subject. Next time you’re in a discussion, ask the quiet ones for their opinions. You’ll be surprised to discover they’re brighter than others. They aren’t afraid of speaking before a crowd. Some of the best public speakers are introverts and they spend enough time preparing their speeches. President Obama and Mahatma Gandhi are great examples. Conversely, I’ve seen extroverts freeze onstage. It’s the fear of being judged that can cause stage fright. All share that. So, when you meet an introvert, don’t stereotype. On the flip side, if you’re an introvert, keep your chin up. You’re in good company! I am an introvert and you?

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How To Be Your Best With A Growth Mindset

Emotional Intelligence, Goals, Happiness, Mindfulness, Motivation, Positive Psychology, Positivity, Wellbeing / My Holland

A growth mindset has been widely defined by business leaders as a belief that any one can grow and develop his/her ability for learning, improving and becoming a better person in the workplace or in any other circumstance. It’s not a fixed mindset, something that asserts one has a natural-born, genetic talent and skills and that one either has them or not. A growth mindset is the “I-can-learn-and-do-the-job-well” kind of thinking and it’s what can make the difference in your career. And so, on Monday, when you report back for work from a blissful, quiet and relaxing, no-mother-in-law issues week-end, come in ready to adjust and make changes in the way you think about yourself at work. Make use of these new insights to get in real top shape. Here’s what you can do to build and maintain a growth mindset to help you achieve and exceed your usual output: Recognize, know and accept you’ve got great potential for growth. Find yourself some quiet time to do some pencil pushing. Write down your plans, outlining where you are at present and where you’d want to be by yearend. Then write down clearly the measures you need to take to get there. Share these plans with a trusted colleague or friend. It’ll sort of “push you” into sticking to these plans and help you hit your goals. Look for favors or things that you can do to help others. Professor Adam Grant of Wharton, in his book “Give and Take” says helping others drives our success. He contends that people who think of others in their motivation, who works on both individual and community goals are the most successful achievers. When you commit to help others and put this above your own well-being, you are already practicing great leadership qualities. Even small things, like coaching or mentoring a co-worker who’d benefit from your background, education or talent, goes along way towards helping you reach your personal goals. Be curious and open your mind to new ideas. Part of having a growth mindset is recognizing that our total work experience is a continuing learning process. When you’ve got this embedded in your mind, the challenges that’ll face you will become less scary. This is where your love for learning will do wonders big time! Open your eyes, heart and mind to new ideas. Don’t knock them down no matter how unorthodox or strange they may be. These, in the end will help you to make connections between ideas and concepts and help you to learn new skills, gain new insights or new ways of improving. When you start working these approaches into your routine, you’ll be on your way to developing a growth mindset that’ll help you get to where you’d want to be by yearend. Good luck!

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Navigating Uncharted Waters: A Year of Growth, Resilience, and Infinite Possibilities

Introverts Can Be Excellent Leaders

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